How You Can Stay Safer
And Prepare With Knowledge
You Didn't Even Know You Needed
With the world in the state that it's in, it's even more important to protect yourself and your children.
Not by being afraid, but having information needed to take care of things if an emergency were to happen.
This includes staying safer from family members, entertainment industry, people in the educational system, sexual exploitaion, trafficking, grooming and other areas of subject that seem to upset people in a variety of ways.
Hi there,
I'm Mrs. Rita to many young people,
There are other names and we won't go into that now.
Many years ago I wrote about, taught, went in to schools in the small communities in and around the small communities in the area we lived. My husband, children and myself shared how children could stay safer from those who want to harm them.
Back then I had an editor, I'm not worrying about that anymore, there are some things too important and there's no time to waste.
During those years I began to understand the catastrophic problem with abuse, especially with women and the most innocent, the children. Men were seldom mentioned; this could be that most men never report these crimes against themselves and humanity.
No, it's not just about one person.
The abuser has a lust that he or she cannot contain or control. One that takes over them without discretion at times and or lack of discipline.
They continue to abuse; while they tell you that they love you.
They tell you that you can't tell anyone else or you won't be together anymore.
They tell you not to tell anyone or they will kill something. Your cat, friend, parent or some stuffed animal you shared too much knowledge about online.
Part truth. Part Lie.
They love what they can get from you.
They will go to prison so no, you won't be together anymore.
They want to control you with fear so they conquer and break you.
You are ONLY being used.
You're not alone.
There are millions hurting and not understanding. There are many that want to get out. Live a different life away from abuse you can never speak about. Hold it all inside so maybe it will just go away.
At that time, 20+ yrs. ago, the average boy was molested 1 out of 6 boys. Those where only the crimes according to the records. The average girl was 1 out of 5 girls if memory serves me. These were children from the earliest of ages including infants and toddlers up to 18 yrs. of age.
Those were stats I was unwilling to sit still over and I began to write even more. This led to speaking in homes, and small family gatherings with Christian and Homeschool families.
Over the years I watched my own children subject to these crimes against children even in one of the homes we were speaking in - an older child there was targeting my daughter because she was the new kid.
Without understanding what we were there for the child proceeded to try to get my very shy and quiet little precious child to participate in something she understood was wrong. She may have been 6 or so.
While I was speaking, I heard my little poptart say "NO!", "I Said NO!" very sternly and loudly which she never ever did: and I took off running.
I already knew the signs and my two miracle children had learned early how to stay a little bit safer.
The Yello Dyno
When they were young I found a child safety program called the Yello Dyno that teaches children in a very non threatening way how to stay safe.
Unlike the other programs for children out there, the researcher, author and speaker, Jan found that even when children have the information, they still froze under fear.
She went into the prisons and asked over 100 child predators what they did to get the children.
Each predator had their own story and skills.
Working with the authority, surviors of crimes, the prisoners information, statistics and determination she wrote for the safety of children and families everywhere.
Get Two Copies of Your Child's Fingerprints
The first is a finger print pkg. and book. Get your children printed while they're young and keep a copy in a post office box and one in your home.
Finger print your children: This is just in case. We never know if something is going to happen we just pray and hope we never have to experience this type of horror.
One thing is for sure, if you have a copy of your child's fingerprints, you can get it to the proper authorities more quickly.
The Yello Dyno - Child Safety Products
These are older videos but as much needed today as then. I'm not sure if there's still a site or products outside of what I found. Reach out to her and see if she still has a website.
Dearest Jan,
If you ever come across this page, I will forever be greatful to you and your determination. My fries will always be your fries too. You came and sat with me at a conference you spoke at with other celebrities and actors. At some point you came to the back where I was and sat down next to me. We shared fries together and I will always appreciate your warmth and kindness during that small fraction of time.
Thank you for having a part in saving my own child but millions of others as well.
The information Here is from an interview I was listening to
and know I have to share it.
This is for the stronger person and at times difficult to hear.
MEN must hear this information.
This about the spiritual implications.
Videos and Website
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